Phone sex is a situation where by one is talking about or listening to explicit erotic matters on phone. It usually involve two persons who are apart but find themselves in relationship or in love or somebody paying money to phone sex service provider to listen to erotic issues. Telephone sex is gaining popularity by the day due to the fact that physical sex is dangerous, there are the risks of contacting sexually transmitted diseases. The men that are involved in phone sex usually look for a way to relieve their sexual arousal by engaging themselves in masturbation, while the ladies trying to relieve themselves by fingering their pussies.
Phone sex is now popular to the extent that some people are openly advocating for it. Though I think is the safest sex one can have due the rampant spread of HIV/AIDS infections. For instance in October 2000, a group of Russian health experts took out newspaper advertisements to promote telephone sex in response to an increase in HIV infections.
However, other people are promoting phone sex strictly for financial purpose, this is because, it is now a good medium to make good millions of dollars. There are now phone sex services where people pay to hear obscenities. This has become a billion-dollar industry in the United States.
Further to support phone sex, the book "The Fantasy Factory has this to say: "Intimate physical and emotional contact is dangerous. There are physical risks of sexual transmitted diseases, personal/professional risk of exposure, and fear of judgments and repercussions of 'abnormal' desire. Phone sex subverts the risk".
Agreed, phone sex does not involve physical contact, hence, there is no risk of contacting any sexual transmitted diseases. But doe this means that phone sex should be encouraged? Or does this means that there is nothing wrong with it? Or is it that there are no dangers or risk at all? Please, comment.
Friday, September 5, 2008
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
TRUE LOVE
THINGS TO AID YOU IN DISCOVERY YOUR TRUE LIFE PARTNER
Knowing one’s true love is one of the greatest tasks in the school of relationship. A lot of people have made series of grievous mistakes in the past in this regard.
The never answered question is ‘how do one ascertain the partner who is truly in love’ to answer this question a lot of things need to be considered. One of such is trying understanding the term ‘TRUE LOVE’ and its elements. What then is True Love?
LOVE can be defined as a strong feeling of affection for somebody. But in the course of the topic at hand we are going to look at it from a different perspective, this is to enable us draw the line between mere love and true love this is because one can be in love for several reasons.
TYPES OF LOVE: Lip love, Just say love, conditional love, Unconditional love (True Love)
What then is ‘TRUE LOVE’? It is a strong feeling of affection for somebody as a result of intimacy which is beyond human understanding and explanation. In its presence there is endurance, tolerance, care, no deceit, respect for one another’s feelings, sharing of opinions and ideas, void of secretes, both partners will be ready to give no matter the situation, defends one another, both partners will always look for rooms for excel and increase in any area of life, both partners use the word WE, OUR, US, even in the face of trial and difficulties they are ready to cope.
The Channels to True Love:
Friendship (here you can still lie and undermine his / her feelings
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Long Friendship (here his or her feelings are not undermined)
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Intimacy (here you find it difficult to leave his or her sight)
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Love (because fear of losing him or her here is full of deceits)
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True Love (void of fear, deceit and others because both partner now know and understand each other better)
To be continue..............Next sub topic: 'THE ELEMENTS OF TRUE LOVE'
Knowing one’s true love is one of the greatest tasks in the school of relationship. A lot of people have made series of grievous mistakes in the past in this regard.
The never answered question is ‘how do one ascertain the partner who is truly in love’ to answer this question a lot of things need to be considered. One of such is trying understanding the term ‘TRUE LOVE’ and its elements. What then is True Love?
LOVE can be defined as a strong feeling of affection for somebody. But in the course of the topic at hand we are going to look at it from a different perspective, this is to enable us draw the line between mere love and true love this is because one can be in love for several reasons.
TYPES OF LOVE: Lip love, Just say love, conditional love, Unconditional love (True Love)
What then is ‘TRUE LOVE’? It is a strong feeling of affection for somebody as a result of intimacy which is beyond human understanding and explanation. In its presence there is endurance, tolerance, care, no deceit, respect for one another’s feelings, sharing of opinions and ideas, void of secretes, both partners will be ready to give no matter the situation, defends one another, both partners will always look for rooms for excel and increase in any area of life, both partners use the word WE, OUR, US, even in the face of trial and difficulties they are ready to cope.
The Channels to True Love:
Friendship (here you can still lie and undermine his / her feelings
╫
Long Friendship (here his or her feelings are not undermined)
╫
Intimacy (here you find it difficult to leave his or her sight)
╫
Love (because fear of losing him or her here is full of deceits)
╫
True Love (void of fear, deceit and others because both partner now know and understand each other better)
To be continue..............Next sub topic: 'THE ELEMENTS OF TRUE LOVE'
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